"We did our job, as my husband points out repeatedly. You're supposed to give your children roots and wings, and their roots are firmly planted in the ground and they have a sense of themselves and of place and purpose. They have the ability to fly away from home and to test those wings and to start their own lives separate from us"
While it is SO great to feel loved by our families, we also get a lot of slack for moving away, not coming home enough, not living close enough to home, not spending every holiday with the family, and being 27 and still without kids.
SO, this quote makes me feel good as I hope this would be Josh and I's philosophy when we do have kids. Yes, that feeling could change once we became empty-nesters, but I would hope to parent with this mindset.

